Thursday, July 31, 2008

The Annoying Date



How can a date be annoying and you haven't even gone on one? I'll tell you how. There are guys who just chill and are laid back and there are those that I would call Eager Beavers. First of all guys if you like a female it's fine to let her know but not on a constant basis if you just met a few days days prior. It gets a bit annoying. To tell a female that you JUST met you miss her can be a bit scary. It kind of puts me off like wtf. I don't even know you. Don't by no means tell a female that (again) you just met that you've been staring at pictures of her and thinking about her all day. Wow. Let us at least be on the same page first or just actually hold that thought. I'm not knocking you if you just instantly fell head over heels but if you can tell the recipient is not feeling the same way cool it a bit. Turn it down a notch. Don't plan vacations and rendezvous' for future dates when we haven't even had a first one. How do you (guy) know that you'll make it past another week? a month? All I'm saying is that some guys need to chill. What's the rush? Just take it easy. To add to it if you're meeting someone online and we DON'T know each other please be easy. I had to delete one guy because he was just asking too many questions after about 3 hours of me starting my account. I already knew where he worked, lived, his phone # and email. I'm like wow you waste no time. And maybe that's me being cautious but the whole over the top look is not cute-you're doing too much. Just fall back a bit. This is not the case for all guys but there are a few that fall through the cracks and it makes you wonder why they maybe single.....

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

are we refering to mr. myspace....lol...you were on point with this one

Blaque Diamond said...

OMG, LOL! You are so right, men or women who do that are STALKERS! Glad you could see it in the begining and not waste much time. LOL

Unknown said...

Your beauty is obsviously blowing these bamma's minds. LOL!!! Take it has a compliment! But yeah I would be a little annoyed also. They need to tone it down a bit. Remember people tell you about themselves through their actions and if they are acting like that now...well there you go!!! NEXT!

Anonymous said...

I feel you and this one, SOOOOOO true!