Sunday, October 4, 2009

Single Lonely Girl


So being a single girl can sometimes be lonely and have you wishing/wanting that special someone in your life. And although I have heard all things such as be patient, it'll come, you'll find the one it just doesn't seem to happen. And trust when I say I am pretty much content as a single girl but some days you just wish/want more. When I say more I mean that one special person that you can share things with, your ups and downs, intimacy and most importantly friendship. Not just any type of friendship. You have friendships with your peers, your family, and your best friends but none of them are the same as having that friendship with a significant other.

Recently someone asked me why was I single? Is it because I'm anti-man? LOL. I actually had to laugh at that and explain why. So then I pose the question to myself. Why am I still single? Am I anti-man? Well to answer that I would give the same answer I gave them. I'm in a relationship with myself. I am busy doings things on my time that I like to do by myself. I basically am doing me. There is no harm in that. I am a full time employee as well as a student by night. Going to school at night is no easy feat and leaves you with no time and trying to catch up on sleep. Therefore my dating life has completely stalled. And I am not currently looking for anyone I am taking it one day at a time and if it happens, it happens. But then there are moments like now where I'm thinking when will I find him? Will it be in the near future? when I least expect it? when I am interested in someone else? I don't know but for now all I can do is patiently wait. I'm sure someone will come around....

5 comments:

Blaque Diamond said...

You inspire me little lady!I have asked myself that very question and then I asked myself why don't I met people(men that I would actually be attracted to in more ways then one) when I'm out. So the last question I can answer and it's pretty much I need to go to new places but when do I have time. The first question I'm still trying to figure out, until then I'm with you going to work,school, and waiting for that Mr. Right...maybe I will get over my fears and try a dating website or something, lol.

Anonymous said...

We all want to fall on love. Why? Because that experience makes us feel completely alive. Here every sense is heightened, every emotion magnified, our every day reality is shattered and we are sent into the heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour, or a afternoon. But that does not diminish it value, because we are left with the memories that we cherish for the rest of our lives......
What ever happened to the guy that you seemed so excited about around November of last year? -Curiouse

Single Girl said...

In response to anonymous the Guy I believe you're referring to turned out like the rest a jerk. He pretty much wanted to be controlling and wanted to change me. Not gonna happen.

LatinMami said...

WOW that was a good one....but as the saying goes love is patient and can not be rushed....so i would continue to do what you have been doing until he comes along ;)

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