tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977334891508077106.post5864022641333860346..comments2023-06-11T10:00:46.640-04:00Comments on SingleGirlDating.com: Childless DatingSingle Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01146636151268432926noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977334891508077106.post-31826872567539056042008-08-30T01:43:00.000-04:002008-08-30T01:43:00.000-04:00I agree with Single Girl, I don't want a man with ...I agree with Single Girl, I don't want a man with kids either. I'm over 40 so it's getting realy hard to find one with none. I've heard plenty of men say that they don't want a ready made family, why can't a woman say it? The few times that I gave in and dated men with a kid or kids, I didn't care for it. On top of that, I've have men initially say they don't have kids, but they finally admit they do, just don't live with them. Also, there are those who lie about the number of children that they have. Why not just avoid it all together?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977334891508077106.post-87260301808803832142008-07-17T20:00:00.000-04:002008-07-17T20:00:00.000-04:00oohhhh I so feel you on this one! I mean why do we...oohhhh I so feel you on this one! I mean why do we have to apologize for wanting and needing to be number 1? Why has finding a man with NO children getting harder and harder? Once meeting and dating a man your first questions to him should not be: 1. Have you ever dated or been with another man (another topic) 2. Do you have any children and if so how many? 3. Are they all by the same women? Because having more than one further complicates the whole situation especially if they are simple minded.<BR/>Again, it may be shallow in someone else book, but when you don’t have kids and you have to compete with other single women, different lifestyles, and schedules throwing children in the mix is not always the best option.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977334891508077106.post-10546175301139283682008-07-17T11:11:00.000-04:002008-07-17T11:11:00.000-04:00I have tried being open minded and not having rule...I have tried being open minded and not having rules. And honestly I don't have many just age and children. Mainly children. Everytime I get caught up with a dude with a child there's always some type of drama. Not necessarily baba mama drama either but there's always something and it usually revolves around the child. So therefore by choice I have decided to leave men with kids alone. That's just my preference. It just doesn't fare out in the end. And I want to be the first person giving my man who hopefully is my husband a child. That's something I want to share with him only. I'm not knocking single parents because my mother was one but I don't have children and I expect the same. That's all.Single Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01146636151268432926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977334891508077106.post-37876866521098645822008-07-17T10:19:00.000-04:002008-07-17T10:19:00.000-04:00I definitely agree with expartygirl. Please don't ...I definitely agree with expartygirl. Please don't knock your blessings if a brother has a kid..You never know what you may miss out on..And ms. davis, I don't know where you are looking, but I know a few brothers with no kids, not alot, but a few....So just let the most high send your knight your way....OneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2977334891508077106.post-61733228169243890822008-07-17T10:06:00.000-04:002008-07-17T10:06:00.000-04:00Hmmm, well let's see, you want to find a man witho...Hmmm, well let's see, you want to find a man without children (good luck), if he has children you want to be number one (only if he is not taking care of his child), no baby mama drama (its possible). The thing is considering that most men have children you should not block your blessings. The key is to ask as many questions about the relationship with the mother and the children, does he pay childsupport, what about visits. the answers to these questions are essential when deciding whether this situation is for you. What is you meet a guy and you totally write him off just because of your selfishness? What if you had a child and he wrote you off? We as women of color especially tend to create this list that limits your chances of finding true love. I know that it is important to know exactly what you want in advance but like with any situtaion there must be compromise from both parties. Be patient, he is out there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com