Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Dating Scene for a Single Girl

Okay so the dating scene is quite lame. I mean I have really tried to be open minded and try out a dating site at the advice of friends. However, my account is now closed because that's just not my style. What happened to the old fashioned way of meeting guys? Guys actually approaching a female and saying something nice enough to get your attention and then have a nice convo from there? Oh wait that must only be in the movies cause i don't think I've ever seen that scene played out. But on the real where are the available, drama free, non issue having, respectable, ready to commit, not get on your nerves too much and treat you like a queen men at? I mean is something wrong here. Are we experiencing a shortage of good men? And don't get me wrong there are some good men out there but it's just taking me awhile to find him I guess. And then i look at some of my friends and realize I'm not the only one singing this tune. But I tell you what it's getting old real quick and frankly so am I. Can't I just find a normal guy? Lol. Someone told me the other day to lower my standards but I'm thinking geez if I lower them anymore than I might as well pick up any ole thing and that Is so not me and I'm just not into settling. So I'm going to take a hiatus from men for a minute. Who knows that man I'm looking for just might pop up. I'll stay hopeful.

9 comments:

Blaque Diamond said...

OMG that someone that told you to lower your standards must be the same person that told me to do that very same thing. I mean I only have three so how low do they need to go? I'm trying to figure out where to meet a man because the clubs and bars are a no go, I'm scared to do the online thing, so where does this leave me? Alone and out there partying with my good girlfriends or spending a great amount of time with other couples that tell me how much I need a man and blah blah blah. I'm a bit older than you and I'm starting to lose my dreams of the home, husband, baby....I guess I'm just sitting with home!

Anonymous said...

You have to spend your time in the places where your standards exist. You're probably not going to find a professional/christian man in a club on Saturday or Sunday nights. He's got church and a job to go to on Monday. Change your scenery. You're in the DC area, get involved in the political scene. Volunteer for next years campaign, you know you love Obama. You'll find someone you like and hopefully he's worthy of you.

Anonymous said...

Holy cow, getting involved in the political scene is absolutely the worst way to meet someone decent of either gender. Do something altruistic like volunteering. Then you'll meet good people.

Anonymous said...

Second volunteering; find something you want to do to help people and you will probably meet someone like yourself. If you don't meet anyone special, you certainly wouldn't have been wasting your time.

As far as why things have changed, why men won't walk up and try to strike up a nice conversation, why women don't get treated like queens anymore, look at feminism. I'm sorry to say that our culture has changed.

Goat Gravy aka Cerebral Ballsy said...

Hey, that was said in jest.

JessicaAPISS said...

The scenario you speak of happened to me very rarely as a single gal in DC. And then it DID happen at Whitlow's on Wilson on a Sunday night - a cute guy approached me, we bantered, he asked for my number, called later that week for a date...and I married him a couple years later. When this does happen, LOCK HIM DOWN, it's the sign of a keeper.

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